The format of the message board was changed as a direct result of a gay man with your perspective threatening the life of the webmaster and his family. I have received death threats from gay activists who oppose my stating the simple Biblical fact that homosexuality is a sin, however, this has not kept me from publishing my email address. So I find your reasoning lame.
Yes, Jesus said "I have not come to bring peace but a sword", knowing that those who follow Him will leave Judaism behind. In His earthly ministry Jesus was sent to the House of Israel, not the gentiles. His words were shown true with the death of Stephen and most of the other early church leaders, so the division in family's Jesus predicted is not due to sexuality, it is due to faith in Him.
I truly feel sorry for you James since you are teaching people to disobey God and on the day you stand before God you will have to justify every word you have spoken. Jesus, Paul, and the writer of Hebrews warned us that people like you and gay theology proponants would come, it is unfortunate you have decided to ignore what the Spirit has revealed to us through the New Testament.
Go in peace, I pray the Holy Spirit will enlighten your heart and mind with His truth.