What makes you think I turned my back on the gay community? Also, what makes you think I no longer work for or support equal rights for the gay community? Is it because I would rather disseminate truth than lies? I have been banned from one Christian message board and am not welcome on a couple others because I do not support their assumptions that everyone in the gay community is a demented pervert out to sodomize the youth of America. You seem to be judging me and all Christians based on lack of knowledge and are using the same prejudice you accuse all Christians of when dealing with homosexuality.
If you will take the time to click on the blue banner in my signature you will find my reasons for leaving gay life, not my gay friends. So before you continue with your arrogant accusations I suggest you educate yourself about the ex-gay movement and me without assuming what you read on the Internet about the “ex-gay fraud” is my reality. You might try starting with this page: WELCOME TO MY HIV & AIDS PAGE, which is dedicated to my youngest brother who was gay and died from complications due to HIV/AIDS. I have not ceased promoting real communication between the gay community and Christians who do not understand what they condemn; in fact I have spent more time over the last 20 years working for equal rights for all human beings and real dialogue between gays and straights than almost anything else.
I was 38 when I first started thinking about leaving gay life and 40 when I committed to the “journey”. Based on my family history I have a good chance of reaching 90+ before I die so again your assumption that a sudden realization of my mortality having anything to do with my choice is ludicrous. My maternal grandmother’s youngest sister died a year ago at the age of 95, my grandmother died at 92, her father was 91 when he died. My brother passed away in 1995 (he was 42 and I was 52), 12 years after I left gay life behind so HIV/AIDS was not a factor in my decision.
prayer is the last refuge of a scoundrel, you know that, don't you?
Would you care to back up this statement with facts and not opinion?