These are summary of my observations and conclusions about Christianity and Christians.
Christianity has seemingly appealing messages but it has no supportive backbone. Christians have these messages in their mouth, but not in their lives. The most prominent example, is "unconditional love," which is reflected in the phrase "turn your other cheek." When considered together with the phrase "pray for your oppressors" these ideas reflect the Roman shrewdness in taking Christianity under control by violating its message. Why I say so?
For ex., Christianity bans fighting, but Christians fought throughout their history. Because fighting is a reality of life. It is like traffic, even though you drive carefully, a drunk can come and crash into your car. Fighting is inevitable in many cases, but Christianity orders the other way, and naturally Christians could not abide by this Message. What does this tell? Christianity is utopic and orders the impossible. What happened? Since Christianity did not acknoledge this reality, when fighting was inevitable, the blank parts were filled by humans. Did that make world a better place? No, Christians showed no less brutality than Cinghis.
In short, Christianity was filled by utopic ideas, so that it would not be a threat to Romans, or it would be a religion to Roman taste. As a matter or fact, when Christianity became the religion of Roman empire, it had already lost its true character and became a filling material for the imperial ambitions, which was then represented by the theocracy. After becoming the Roman imperial religion, Christianity had since been connotated with inquisition, withchunts, anti-semitism, brutal campaigns into the Middle East etc. Christianity could not make any Godly influence on the Roman practices, instead just sadly replaced it with religious bigotry and became source of social stagnation.
Christians loves to say western secular society is based Christian values (although, they interestingly avoid taking responsibility of colonialism claiming it is secular action.) In fact, secular civilization was possible only when people broke chains of Christian bigotry and stagnancy. Philosophy textbooks will give you a chain of free thought starting from Thomas Hobbes.
Christianity had a chance and lost it. What still remains today is the pagan Roman Empire. And Christianity still serves as the filling material for international campaigns of this secular empire, without contributing to it in a godly way.
In short Christianity is a bankrupt religion, devoid of feasible spirit and means to change its adherents and affect the world in a godly way. It is religion of "your" choice, not God's.