Aineo, wouldnt anyone who placed any love, hetero or homo, (or for money, or any physical thing) above love for God, be missing the point of that command? Of course they would.
People are capable of developing romantic feelings for/with someone who doesnt edify their relationship with God - its being hetero or homo isnt the point, the fact that its empty because it doesnt edify one's relationship with God is.
Your not "forcing" anything dogma-wise in the sense that your holding people by their throats and threatening them with death if they dont convert. But: there's a difference between saying "your homosexual attraction is a sin/wrong/etc, and will condemn you to hell" and "my homosexual experiences were, in the Romans 1:28 sense, not natural for me, therefor it was incorect and not edifying for me and my relationship with God, because God created me straight, and created others gay, so I understand He has something better for me, but I understand there might be something else in His plan for you."
We're not all the same. He created me gay. You seemed to have been out-of-place in pursuing a gay relationship, I take it. Fine. That doesnt mean I am. On the contrary, it, among other things, has been a source of great strength for my relationship with God. So there.