Your conclusion is typical of all professing gay Christians. You appeal to "God created me as a gay man", which begs the question since God only created Adam and Eve; the balance of humanity was born.
However, pedophiles, murderers, thieves, adulterers, and all others who choose to go with their emotions can make the same claim as you have. "God created me this way".
Tell me Origen, what does it mean to "love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind"?
Also appealing to what hetero's do is nothing more than avoiding the fact that God labels same gender sexual activity and desires a sin punishable by an eternity in the lake of fire. Straight's will have to answer to God for how they lived their lives and the decisions they make.