I must admit you just found a Biblical justification for a 3 way. That is really clever and devilish thinking.
Ecclesiastes 4:11
Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone?
"Moreover, if two lie together, then there is heat to them: but how can it be warm with one who is alone?" The marriage relation is not excluded, but it remains in the background; the author has two friends in his eye, who, lying in a cold night under one covering (Ex 22:26; Isa 28:20), cherish one another, and impart mutual warmth. Also in Aboth de-Rabbi Nathan, c. 8, the sleeping of two together is spoken of as an evidence of friendship. The vav in vehham is that of the consequent; it is wanting 10 a, according to rule, in häehhad, because it commonly comes into use with the verb, seldom (e.g., Gen 22:1) with the preceding subj.
(from Keil & Delitzsch Commentary on the Old Testament: New Updated Edition, Electronic Database. Copyright (c) 1996 by Hendrickson Publishers, Inc.)
One thing I have notice about gay men and lesbian women who attempt to find Biblical justification for their perversion is they will violate God's word with abandon totally ignoring the full context of Scripture.
An adult boy friend does not have to be a lover or a sexual partner. But then you are obsessed with men. This is what Psychiatry labels paraphilia.