I don't know if you live it or not. I would hope you would give me the same advice. I wouldnn't wonder if you were commenting on how I live, but would understand that you are just trying to help.
As far as your qoute. I am not debating with you anymore. Please, leave me alone friend. She is asking us how can she reach someone better. Direct your attention to helping her and leave me alone. I don't wish to talk with people if they can't admit being wrong. It is pointless to debate with a person who can never be wrong... So please, pretty please with sugar on top. Leave me alone until you can admit that you were wrong. Then we can discuss some issues.
Linda-
As I said, when it comes down to it, you have to follow the Spirit and not man.