Angel:
If you think you should not have a say in adult-child relationships, how 'bout this one (it pains me to even type it):
My mother was raised her whole life in a sexual relationship with her FATHER that she thought was NORMAL. He was even overly jealous of her when she went to college, like he was worried about her CHEATING ON HIM. I know you are as disgusted by this kind of ABUSE as I am, but what makes you think you can stand by and let this kind of thing happen? My mother was SO screwed up by this. She is WORLDS better now, but she still has baggage. AND HER WHOLE CHILDHOOD she was in DENIAL that it was abnormal.
JUST BECAUSE THESE BOYS "CONSENT" DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE NOT BEING ABUSED. THINK ABOUT IT, for my mother's sake.
God bring you understanding,
Tearfully,
Amadeus