Hello Spunky,
The Bible says, "Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Wives are supposed to submit as unto the Lord.
Husbands must love their wives as Christ loved the church. That is an awesome responsibility. Jesus gave up his life for the church. He served his disciples. Look at his love. Who sacrificed more Christ or the church? Christ indeed. Much more is required of the husband than the wife. I'm thankful I'm a woman. I am to submit to my husband as unto the Lord which means that I do not disobey God in order to submit to my husband.