The reference on Al Hadis, vol 1, p.217 sounds unbelievable
Ja`ber-b-Abdullah reported that the Messenger of Allah said, "...Verily, you have married (wives) with trust in Allah. You have got the right over them that they entertain nobody to your bed which you dislike. If they do this, give them a beating..." [Al Hadis, Vol 1, p. 217 (76)]
I have never come accross this saying before. Are you sure, that this particular saying is not taken out of context? Or perhaps it is unreliable?
Could you please elaborate a bit more on this?
Be blessed
Kai