Heterosexuality Discussion ForumForgive me God for I have sinned!I doubt that a gender bias regarding masterbation is anything more than public perception - much akin to the thought that a guy having sex with a bunch of different women is expected, but for a woman to do the same makes her a slut. It's public perception. I'm not terribly impressed with what the public usually percieves, so IMO that shouldn't make a difference Acceptable to who? The public? Once again, I've never really cared much what the public thinks of me. I have long hair in this age when long hair is looked down on (fads are tending toward short hair now), I have visible piercings in places where the "public" finds it unacceptable. I would have tattoo's on my face/neck/arms if it wouldn't mean that I'd lose my job for it. Is public opinion really that big of an issue? (oh, and if so, why? ) I have actually been in this situation before. I dated a woman that had never masterbated. She was not a virgin when I dated her, but the reason she didn't masterbate was because it was "dirty". The sex with her was, to be honest, considerably less enjoyable than I had expected, although I don't know what was the cause of that. She was fairly prudish, which may go some way to explaining things Personally, I would prefer a woman that does masterbate because that opens up an entire realm of possibilities sexually. My wife masterbates - not as often as I do, but that's because she doesn't have as much time (pardon the pun) on her hands. Actually that's never been a problem either. As a matter of fact - I don't think I've ever even *heard* of someone with that problem. If my wife is "dry", then either she's not in the right frame of mind or I'm doing something wrong. Likewise, if I masterbate because I don't think I'll have sex with my wife on a given night, and it turns out she's really "in the mood", all it takes is a little fiddling around before we're both good to go. I realize (as you mentioned multiple times above) that these are your opinions - what are they based on? Experience? Have you ever masterbated, or are you speaking (as it were) from the outside? |
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