If you loved me, why have you not asked me what do I mean?
If you loved me, why do you ignore what I'm telling you my intent is?
If you love me, why do you refuse to explain your opinions or how what I said is wrong?
If you love me, why did you respond so harshly to me for saying Amen to something you now have no problem with? (the qoute posted by Rud, which is the only post he made in this thread)
If you love me, why have you not once, tried to understand my side of the story?
If you love me, why do you call me "extremely irksome"? Would you say that to you daughter or son who is trying to explain him/herself to you?
The thing you don't get. Is that I treat you just like a brother. Ask my wife and she will tell you that I'm just as hard on her and even harder on myself. I can honestly say that I have been treating you like those I love and deal with on a daily basis. Can you say the same. Do you accuse those in your congregation of calling you a liar everytime they don't believe something you say?
What of your mother when you were a child; did you consider her a liar when she did not believe what you said to her?
What of your brother, do you speak to him the same way you speak to me when you disagree with him?
Why should I believe you love me?
What manifestation of love do you see in your own actions?
Is it the claiming I called you a liar? Is that how you treat those you love?
Is it refusing to explain your points? Is that how you treat those you love?
IN what way do you treat those you love? Are you treating me that way?
As I said, you're only decieving yourself...
May God shed light on this and put some honesty in your heart friend...
Face the truth Omega, you don't love me at all...
With Love,