From what I have been told is that self harming is along the line of Anexoria and Blumemia in the sense that it is about control.
She may feel that she is spirialing out of control and this is the one thing she can control, is she cutting? she controls the cuts the depth and the frequency.
Be there for her and try to get her to seek counseling from an experienced counselerwho will not try and destroy her faith
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