It took me some time to actually find out what ex-gay is, this is my first time at these forums, and I havnt seen that term used elsewhere.
Excuse me jjf, but you can't compare childmolestation to homosexuality and use that as your only defence. Homosexuals engange in whatever sexual act with eachother by their own free will, generally, and little children do not. It harms the child and gives him/her a completely wrong picture of how sex is a pleasant experience between two people in love.
Sex has always (and will probably always be) a huge taboo, the sexual minorities an even bigger one. However, homosexuality does not hurt anybody, and is merely a following of instincts by a person, so why this massive __?
By this, I'm not saying that pedophiles should just 'follow their instincts'. This is a very complicated discussion, and I don't think anyone will ever reach complete understanding of eachothers point-of-views :/
But, I'm very much against any form of hatred and anger towards anyone. Especially when the person can't help being how he/she is, like racism. Who are we to judge which thoughts are dirty and forbidden, and which arent? There is absolutely no reason to form an anti-gay movement, in my oppinion, it just adds more hatred to the world, and we don't need that.