ArchivedWhy is divorce never allowed?I your spouse is threatening your life or mental stability that can be a legitimate reason to separate from them. If they take it so far that you know in your heart things can never work for the two of you, I believe that you need to divorce. If it is best for the both of you that you separate you need to separate. Relationships are bulit on trust and if the line is crossed where you are not capable of trusting your spouse you need to separate. God was in a love relationship with Satan at one time just as He is in a love relationship with each of us who are saved. Satan crossed the line, however, and broke the trust of God. God is doing what is best for Satan by breaking off their relationship. What is best for one party is what is best for the other. By divorcing your spouse you are sending them to "hell". Hell is a place where a person learns to be sorry for past actions and makes decisions to be different. Hell teaches a person to be thankful for heaven The kingdom of heaven is within you. Heaven is where God is. Hell is separation from God. The devil is a deciever, and people can be after the devil. Just as Satan can appear to be an angel of light, so can a person appear to be someone you can trust but people can decieve you. If you realize that you have married a person who is someone different than who you thought they were you need to get out of that relationship. The thing about Christianity is that if two people are having problems with their marriage the problems can always be solved through the Bible and Jesus. People have free will, however, and if one person is not willing to believe in God and try to repair the marriage, it is NOT the other person's duty to let the unbeliever drag them down. This is why a Christian must make sure that the person they wed is also a Christian. Jesus must be the foundation for a marriage- Jesus is God and God is love. Jesus is love. If a person turns into "the devil" in your life you do need to divorce that person because things cannot get better. I am NOT saying this to give anyone an excuse to call their spouse "the devil" as an excuse to divorce the spouse. That would make the person wrongfully calling their spouse "the devil" into the adulteror. I am trying to say that we are not under any law. If an unbeliever is married to a believer they were never married under God. It is not a holy marriage and therefore is not a real marriage. God did not know who Satan was until Satan revealed his true self. Satan made a decision to challenge God instead of work with Him and God had to divorce him becuase it was best for both parties. Maybe God will be able to have a productive relationship to Satan one day- but Satan's place will be different. The point is that God HAD to divorce Satan to ever make the relationship any better and wed us instead- but in heaven no one is married like that because everyone is married to God- so only in heaven can God ever have a positive relationship with Satan again- and only through God can we ever have a positive relationship with a spouse who has shown themselves as Satan inside a marriage- but tstaying married is NOT the answer. Staying married to that person would prevent them form repenting and prevent them from improving their relationship to God. You could be friends with the person if they changed and got right with God but for some people it would take a divorce for them to ever get to the place where they see they were wrong. |
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