Genesis 19:4-11
But before they lay down, the men of the city, even the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both old and young, all the people from every quarter: And they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where are the men(Angels) which came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know them..
And Lot went out at the door unto them, and shut the door after him, And said, I pray you, brethren, do not so wickedly.
Behold now, I have two daughters(virgins) which have not known man; let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men(Angels) do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof.
And they said, Stand back. And they said again, This one fellow came in to sojourn(visit), and he will needs be a judge: now will we deal worse with thee, than with them. And they pressed sore upon the man, even Lot, and came near to break the door.
But the men put forth their hand, and pulled Lot into the house to them, and shut to the door.
And they smote the men that were at the door of the house with blindness, both small and great: so that they wearied themselves to find the door.
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Here's what has been revealved to me without any Bible commentaries or books about the subject other then the Bible itself.
I seriously doubt the men of Sodom who was at door wanted to have sex with the 2 (Angels). They was wanting to kill them.
The actual ideal of the sex or rape is not from scripture at all but a misunderstanding of it.
The ideal of rape or sex comes from the wording "that we may know them" that is twisted one way or another to promote an agenda by whoever is using it at the time.
The word used for "that we may know them" is
Strong's Number: 3045
Transliterated: yada` Phonetic: yaw-dah'
Text: a primitive root; to know (properly, to ascertain by seeing); used in a great variety of senses, figuratively, literally, euphemistically and inferentially (including observation, care, recognition; and causatively, instruction, designation, punishment, etc.) [as follow]: -acknowledge, acquaintance(-ted with), advise, answer, appoint, assuredly, be aware, [un-]awares, can[-not], certainly, comprehend, consider, X could they, cunning, declare, be diligent, (can, cause to) discern, discover, endued with, familiar friend, famous, feel, can have, be [ig-]norant, instruct, kinsfolk, kinsman, (cause to let, make) know, (come to give, have, take) knowledge, have [knowledge], (be, make, make to be, make self) known, + be learned, + lie by man, mark, perceive, privy to, X prognosticator, regard, have respect, skilful, shew, can (man of) skill, be sure, of a surety, teach, (can) tell, understand, have [understanding], X will be, wist, wit, wot.
and is concluded with Lot offering his 2 virgin daugthers instead.
Sex is only what was in Lot's mind at the time as to why the men of Sodom was at his door. We still follow this same logic but if we bother to read a little futher the men of Sodom says
This one fellow(Angel) came in to sojourn(visit), and he will needs be a judge:
The word used is |8199| and must he judge always?
Strong's Number: 8199
Transliterated: shaphat Phonetic: shaw-fat'
Text: a primitive root; to judge, i.e. pronounce sentence (for or against); by implication, to vindicate or punish; by extenssion, to govern; passively, to litigate (literally or figuratively): --+ avenge, X that condemn, contend, defend, execute (judgment), (be a) judge(-ment), X needs, plead, reason, rule.
The the Men of Sodom response is "now will we deal worse with thee Lot, than with them."
Sounds like the 1 of 2 Angels was doing some serious preaching that the men of Sodom didn't like very much because they said "must he judge always"! 8)
If the men of Sodom was seeking to rape the 2 new men(Angels) they would have done raped the 2 virgin daugthers a LONG time before this point in time.
It was Lot who thought the men(Sodom) who was at the door was for sex.
But in reality they was there to kill the men(Angels) for preaching to them!
Which is something Lot never did.
9.
|0559| And they said,
|5066| Stand
|1973| back!
|0559| And they said,
|0259| This one
|0935| came in
|4815| to visit
|8199| and must he judge
|8199| always?
|6258| Now
|7489| we will do {more} harm
|0000| to you(LOT)
|1992| than to them.
|6484| And they pressed
|0376| on the man,
|3876| upon Lot
|3961| greatly,
|3061| and they drew near
|7665| to break down
|1817| the door.
You can accept it or deny it. That is your choice!