Eze 16:49 Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness was in her and in her daughters, neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy.
Although much of an ongoing work has to do with intersexed people in just being available as a friend, there is still no direct link to the destruction of Sodom which was not a result of being homosexuals, more in the order of people who moved God out of their lives, living for themselves alone and ignoring the poor.
Scripture is plain regarding fornication and no way to redefine it without taking God's Word out of context, but where God's Word is silent then we are obligated to be likewise.
I would equate Sodom with the present day prison system, not many spend any length of time in prison without being raped or molested in some other way and that was the condition God was looking at just as it was in the day of Noah Lu 17:26 And as it was in the days of Noe, so shall it be also in the days of the Son of man.
We are not the ones who will separate the sheep from goats or judge according to a persons heart and deeds, realizing that every individual was born with their name in that book of life and only they by choice determine if it is erased or not in choosing who they will serve, God or their own flesh or just living to please one's self as Sodom did and paid the price.
Mt 10:39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.
Mt 16:25 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.
Mr 8:35 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it; but whosoever shall lose his life for my sake and the gospel's, the same shall save it.
Lu 9:24 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it.
Lu 17:33 Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it; and whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it.
Joh 12:25 He that loveth his life shall lose it; and he that hateth his life in this world shall keep it unto life eternal.
Sodom just made bad choices the same as Nineveh that was later destroyed for the same reason, but God was merciful the first time when they repented.