Sane
I know I already replied to your post, but I have more things to say.
First of all, I don't feel that we have to justify our beliefs to anyone. We believe what we believe. End of story. We're not asking you to justify your beliefs.
Secondly, I'd like to give you a prime example of God's kindness. You can find it in II Kings 20:1-6.
1 In those days was Hezekiah sick unto death. And the prophet Isaiah the son of Amoz came to him, and said unto him, Thus saith the LORD, Set thine house in order; for thou shalt die, and not live. 2 Then he turned his face to the wall, and prayed unto the LORD, saying, 3 I beseech thee, O LORD, remember now how I have walked before thee in truth and with a perfect heart, and have done that which is good in thy sight. And Hezekiah wept sore. 4 And it came to pass, afore Isaiah was gone out into the middle court, that the word of the LORD came to him, saying, 5 Turn again, and tell Hezekiah the captain of my people, Thus saith the LORD, the God of David thy father, I have heard thy prayer, I have seen thy tears: behold, I will heal thee: on the third day thou shalt go up unto the house of the LORD. 6 And I will add unto thy days fifteen years; and I will deliver thee and this city out of the hand of the king of Assyria; and I will defend this city for mine own sake, and for my servant David's sake.
Unfortunately, Hezekiah survived long enough to sire a son, Manasseh. Manasseh became king when he was just 12 years old, and he was incredibly evil. He followed the practices of the nations the LORD had driven out before the Israelites. He rebuilt the high places his father had destroyed, and erected altars to Baal and made an Asherah pole. He worshiped the stars and built altars in the temple of the LORD to all of the starry hosts. He sacrificed his own son in the fire, practiced sorcerery and divination, and consulted mediums and spiritualists. (Read II Kings 20:7, on to read more about Manasseh's evil deeds.) In any case, Manasseh's evil led to Judah's destruction. If Hezekiah had died on time, Manasseh would never have been born. Now, you could look at this one of two ways.
1 - God did a stupid thing by allowing Hezekiah to live, despite the fact that He knew what would happen.
or...
2 - God was kind and loving. Despite the fact that he knew what was going to happen, He allowed Hezekiah to live.