Homosexual Discussion ForumGet rid of homosexuality!Most ex-gay ministries give their members tools and information so each person can choose for themselves what process to follow. There is not just one proven process. Some people who have been abused need professional counseling; some are dealing with relationships issues that can be handled without counseling. The only process that works is the process one sticks to in order to reach their goal and takes their personality into account. The process that works for sexual abuse will not necessarily apply to a person who was physically or emotionally abused and definitely will not apply to a person who was never abused. I like your use of the word "process". I usually refer to the process as a journey, a journey filled with detours (being pulled in two directions), periods of happiness and despair, and lots of potholes that jolt one to their core. The one process that always fails is simple behavior modification since almost anyone can modify their behavior but unless thought processes are transformed the inner person will always be miserable. |
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