I belive her story was very good (although I wish it hadnt been in caps screaming)
The quotes from abortianist I have seen before and still to this day its amazing to see how differant people handle the emotional stress of thier jobs.
Abortion is not a pretty issue.
Murder is murder and its never pretty but sometimes it is justified.
Abortion is not here because people dont love children.
Its here because of many reasons the largest being fear.
Fear of what sociaty will think of you is one.
Fear of haveing children is another.
Pressure to get an abortion is HUGE reason why many abortions are performed each year.
But there are those rare cases where abortion is needed.
I support a womans right to choose.
She may very well hate herself for the rest of her life for the choice she made .. but it was her choice and no one is at fault but hers.
After six pregnancys and three liveing children parenthood can be a joy its true.
But it can also bring more sorrows , heartach and pain than anything else in this world.
Abortion is not a form or birth control (sadly to many people use it as just that)
But its there if needed.
For that kid who just cant have a baby or that women who was raped (no its not the babys fault its mother was raped but nor should the woman be forced to relive the fact of her rape daily)
Abortion rights is about women.
I have never met a women who has had an abortion that wanted one..truly wanted one.
I have never met a women would have made the choice differantly than they did though.
Abortion is just one of those issues where our logical mind and our bleeding heart ram together with such a force we are honestly torn apart emotionly.
Few anti abortionist have ever had to come face to face with the cruel and heartwrenching choice of abortion..I mean truely forced with the choice not just a oh i'm pregnate but one thats complicated or non consintual or even worse faced with a choice like that as a literal child like a 12 year old.
On the flip side few people who support full abortion can't honestly say a fetus is not a liveing creature few can go look at the remains and not leave in either a state of shock or emotionaly hurt.
I have had to make that choice and its not an easy one and there is no way to describe the hate you can feel for yourself when you give that consent or the tears that come afterwards wishing you didnt have to.
But its a choice and like all choices you must do what you think is best and best is not always what you may want.
Pro lifers shouldnt hate the doc's that perform abortions belive me the docs can hate themselves quite enough but those are the same doc's that at the same time are carefully bringing other lives into this world as well as saveing other lives.
Dont hate the mothers very few are heartless and want to terminate.
Be mindfull of what you pass on to those around you.
If you look down upon a single pregnatnt women your only feeding thier fear and makeing them more likly to have an abortion.
Pro choice people got so much wrong its not funny.
A fetus is alive no matter how you look at it.
The only differance is ..is it like us?
We dont know..we just honestly dont know yes its genetics are the same but does it know its there? does it have a knowlage of self?
Does it have a soul?
These are the questoned being mulled around and the fact is No one not one human on thier earth knows for sure we can only say what we belive.
What we do know is after the second trimester they can dream.
What we do know is after about 11 weeks they look human.
What we do know is after about 9 weeks they can feel pain.
Thats what we know and thats about all we know.
But it isnt just a blob of tissue but at the same time its not yet a breathing person.
All abortion shouldnt be legal ..its great women have a choice but why is abuse of the choice allowed?
Why are women allowed to terminate a viable fetus?
Why are elective abortions performed after 20 weeks?
Why are elective abortions performed even after 12 weeks?
There is no reason.
I support a womens right to choose but like everything choice should be allowed only within reason.
12 weeks is more than enough time to get an abortion..after that...well I'll just say I think its wrong but hey I dont make the laws now do I?
The only reason pro choice refuses to allow any control of abortions is because they fear the pro life movment that wants ALL abortions outlawed.
All abortions arnt bad and abortion can never be stoped legal or not women will still have them.
So they should be legal and safe.
But controled and done within reason of course everyones reason is differant but I think reasonable is abortions should be limited to the first 12 weeks of pregnancy and baned after that except is cases were the mothers physical life is in danger.
But it wont happen I know it.
The two sides are unwilling to work together to come to an agreement it will either be all or nothing and when its that way everyone loses.