I'm not antisemite at all,not only having heritage,I also go to a Messianic church,I pray for the peace of Jerusalem almost every night,and that we will live to see Romans 11 manifest.
To overlook Judaism as a peaceful religion is wrong.Remember this Judaism is manmade,and based on traditions and philosophies(something you are very against)of a bunch of Rabbi's.
And maybe I gave some statements which are a bit far fetched,since your not knowledgeable on the Judaism of today.This Judaism which I am deeming as heresy is the most popular one of Hasidic Judaism,in which Kabbalah is highly emphasized,which is more of the Lubavitch movement.But this is the most popular version of Orthodox,and that is what I was referring to.
A good saying I've heard is : Do not hate the sinner,hate the sin.In this case I love my Jewish brethren very much,but I hate the Rabbinic form of Judaism.