Pedophiles, Child Molesters, and Sex with Children
I stumbled across your forum here, and I could not leave it without expressing myself. I have no illusions that what I write here will convince many of you that you are misguided in your opinions; nevertheless, I believe it is important that you are exposed, one way or another, to the truth of the matter. That way, your ignorance is no longer the result of not knowing the facts, but from a willful refusal to accept the facts.
Unfortunately, it appears that many of you have pre-judged pedophiles based upon an incomplete understanding of what pedophiles actually are. Many people equate 'pedophile' with 'child molester'. This is simply not true. A pedophile, as its root suggests, is somebody who loves children, specifically, somebody who is romantically attracted to children. By this definition, a pedophile is somebody who advocates consensual and edifying relations between any two consenting persons regardless of differences in their age. A child molester, on the other hand, is a person who engages in sexual relations with minors through the use of force, coercion or manipulation, with little or no regard for the well-being of the younger person.
A second popular misconception is that pedophiles primary aim is to have sexual intercourse with children. This is simply not the case. Whilst pedophiles certainly advocate the fulfilment of their love with their chosen partners by means of physical affection, this does not mean that they desire, at all costs, to have sexual intercourse with them. Indeed, most pedophiles are opposed to penetrative sex, whether it be vaginal or anal, with very young children, as they understand that this can severely damage the body of the younger partner. Instead, pedophiles advocate age-appropriate displays of physical affection. With younger children, you will find very few true pedophiles who desire more than hugging, kissing and cuddling.
There is overwhelming evidence that children are sexual beings and can consent to and enjoy physical relations with those whom they love. Attraction to young people is not a new phenomenon; it has been present in human society since time immemorial. Indeed, if we are to believe historians, the Virgin Mary was around 12 years old when she became pregnant with Jesus, whilst her husband, Joseph, was much older, probably in his 30s. If God decided ot use a very young girl to bring his Son into the world, certainly it is not a bad thing? Or do you wish to condemn God as a pedophile???
I find it patently disingenuous for people to condemn so-called 'grooming'. Pedophiles do not 'groom' children for sex. They court people whom they love and want to get to know better. The only difference is that there is often a significant age difference between the two partners. If both the partners were adults, 'grooming' would be called 'courting' or 'romancing'. There is nothing strange for people who love each other to buy each other presents or go out together. The desire to please and spend time with your paramour is totally natural. Children are much more intelligent than most of you are willing to give them credit for. Most children can tell the difference between a phoney who only wants to molest them from somebody who is genuinely interested in them and loves them. Why is it therefore wrong for somebody who has love a child, given him a higher sense of self-esteem and earned his love and respect, from expressing that love in a consensual and edifying fashion?
So that you understand who I am, I am a pedophile who is attracted to young girls, usually between the ages of 9 and 13. I have never had sexual relations with any girl under the age of consent in the country I live in, although I have been friends with many.
You can find out more about what I believe at my website: (URL removed by Aineo. Take your propaganda somewhere else, it will not be tolerated in this forum.)
Amator Puellularum