Beads:
First let's be clear here. I do not need any reason to have an abortion other than I don't want a child. I can be honest with myself on that.
those reasons had little to do with a baby and it's quality of life and more to do with my quality of life. I don't want to be filled with guilt over it's mental health. Honestly not to care about the baby. Honestly to care about me. Yep. Me. I am honest. I live my life for me. Guess tha't why I do the smart thing and not have kids. I am wholey able to say I would make a horrible mom. Guess it's good I can't have them anyways. I am the perfect example of why some people should not be parents. Because we choose not to because we are honest. We know ourselves.
ut you chose to add a string of other questions that implied (to me, at least) that it's better to abort a child if you don't think you can care for it. The way you were asking questions made it sound like you were saying that the efforts of lifeandliberty have done more harm than good if all they've done is stop an abortion, without taking the time and effort to care for the child/family afterward. So in my mind, the way you posted belies the “genuine sincerity” that you claim to have had in your post.
I can understand your assumption I was insincere. Guess what? Most assumptions are WRONG. Yours was wrong. I was curious. I have never talked to a Right to Lifer and have never been given the oppurtunity to ask said questions. Didn't know we could not learn here. I was very honest. When I want to argue I will. When I say I am sincere I am. I thanked the member for the response.
So now what?
My reasons for abortion have to do with me only and not the fetus. You stated
because if the baby isn't assured of leading a "normal" life, it's much better to kill it, right Geshtinnanna?
Again. That's not why I would abort. I don't care about the baby's life. I care about my own.
You stated:
The way you were asking questions made it sound like you were saying....
I was straightforward and stated I was curious. I stated in detail exactly what I was curious about. I didn't accuse anyone. I didn't assume. I asked QUESTIONS. They answered them understinding why I asked them. Because I was CURIOUS.
you assumed I was not sincere and you were wrong.
So let's get back to the subject at hand.
Next time I ask a question and you ASSUME something just ask me. Then again next time I ask a member a question and it's not you let the member answer. Oh wait...they did answer. And they didn't ASSUME.
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Well, I guess I should expect that from a Satanist whose belief is to think of herself first.
Thanks for the compliment. Or was that an attempt at high horsery? (made that up I think)
Then I won’t be expecting any loose change from you in my “Tips” jar
Tip: Say something on your pious tree and expect me to throw rocks at you.