You Poor Soul!
You poor soul!
That's what I can say for you. Remember, Quran is in ARABIC not in English. Naturally when you translate from one language to another you try to find equivalent words that can convey the message.
Arabic culture is far more richer than any other. Therefore you cannot compare English norms and decorems with ancient ARABIA. Norms prevailing in Ancient Arabia might have found their way in the western culture very late.
You are not even worth of a healthy debate. End of Discussion. Period.
Take a break, Have a KITKAT