Aineo,
I just read that man's story. I used to get so offended when I thought about someone becoming an ex-gay. I actually became angry at the thought of it. I realize now through the years that I have known a lot of unhappy gay men. They were unhappy for many reasons. They could not find a stable relatioship, drugs and alcohol abuse, HIV, lonliness. I realize now that everyone is different. I think there is a place for ex-gay ministries. If someone is really unhappy with their life and being gay is the reason, I see nothing wrong with changing your lifestyle to make yourself well or happy.
I am sure a lot of gay people will disagree with me, but if they are really honest with themselves they will realize they have known a lot of unhappy, or unhealthy (drugs, ETC...) gay men and woman.
Anyway, interesting article.
Thanks,
Jonathan