Child Molestation is a Sin!Sexual relations between an adult and a minorThe concept of being a good friend (and a good influence) on children is the foundation of Big Brothers. Our society frowns on gay men or men with a gay orientation having any influence over a child since they believe that all gay men are basically pedophiles. This is a misconception based on ignorance and prejudice not facts. National statistics demonstrate the incidence of heterosexual pedophiles far outnumbers the incidence of homosexual pedophiles however it is the homosexual pedophile that gets media attention unless the heterosexual pedophile kills his victim. This is a hypocritical double standard demonstrated in all societies throughout human history. I have seen adult ever-straight men influence children into early sexual activity which is just as traumatic for the immature heterosexual child as being abused by a homosexual pedophile since it gives the child the wrong idea of what sex is all about. If sex is not your sole purpose, that is fine with this proviso - sex with an emotionally immature person can be extremely traumatic to their emotional, sexual, and spiritual maturity. When a person feels acceptance and love for the first time in a sexual situation they can sexualize all future emotional needs and take a path that will affect their entire lives. Mentoring children requires emotional security in the mentor as well as the desire for friendship. Children need to be taught self-respect and self-restraint. There is no question that sex is pleasurable and the endorphins released in the brain are a powerful influence for future decisions. A close intimate relationship can be (and is, in my experience) more satisfying than a sexually intimate relationship based on satisfying your libido. |
🌈Pride🌈 goeth before Destruction
When 🌈Pride🌈 cometh, then cometh Shame