Even though you are teen, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders.
As for our vows, I had a few people tell me that mine was more sincere than her's but I refused to believe them thinking that they are just flattering me.
Marraige is a MAJOR commitment and one must know for certain that they are ready such unconditional commitment. I thank God that His love is unconditional. For those that think God's love is conditional is due to the fact they have conditions for God to accept.
I am seeking counseling with my brothers in Christ. I know I will look long and hard at myself to see if there was anything I could have done. At the moment, the Holy Spirit has not opened my eyes.
I am still open for others input, especially those that have been through divorce. I know some of you are married to non-believers.
BIC,
Eddie