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But if i_f_h does not make the boundaries clear, then his wife will continue to step all over him and nothing will be accomplished. I'm not saying that he shouldn't forgive her. He definitely should forgive her. I'm just saying that for too long, his wife has continued her lifestyle without experiencing the consequences of her actions. i_n_h needs to make it clear to her that he will not take this anymore, and that she has to make a decision: either return to Christ, seek help, and make this marriage work, or continue down this destructive path and end the marriage.