ArchivedI need advice badly.....feeling lonely and desperate :: My adviceMy advice If your wife truly cared about you and your children, she would not put you in this position to begin with. She is clearly concerned about one person and one person only: herself. She doesn't care who she steps on, so long as she is able to find sexual pleasure, not only outside of marriage, but with other women. If she had even one drop of concern for you and the kids, she'd put an end to this nonsense, seek help, and return to the Lord. My advice: file for divorce and move on. Also, gently and lovingly remind her what God has to say about homosexual practices and adultery. And never, ever forget to pray for her. Excellent point, wigginsmum. It sounds like she is what I call a Nametag Christian. She's perfectly willing to slap the Christian nametag on her chest, but she's unwilling to honor Jesus by adhering to Christian principles. She's firmly in Satan's grasp, and unfortunately, she's unwilling to put up a fight. This is her soul, we're talking about. Obviously, it doesn't mean that much to her. i_n_h, you can be her "biblical conscience" without continuing to suffer in this marital relationship gone bad. You can divorce her and still provide her with the biblical help she so obviously needs. The pastor was wrong for encouraging you to remain in an abusive relationship. That's what this is: spousal abuse, in the emotional sense. |
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