Hello 100%muslim,
Valid point. It is better for a woman to be married than to be the object of lust. But I'm having trouble in seeing how a nine year old could be considered a woman. Is it physically possible for a girl to be sexually mature at this age? If so, then fair enough. I guess it just seems strange to me as I have never seen a nine year old girl who I would consider to be a woman, mentally or physically.