Don't worry about it, i cool off very easy! 8)
It's OK I understand, we all have our opinions and we should attempt to try and come to conclusions my friend.
Don't you think that the babies would have to act out their free will, I understand that God cetainly does know beforehand who is willing to call upon Him for salvation.
The point i am trying to stress here is that Jesus knew that Judas would betray him and it was acted out according to free will. Such also is the case with Satan, God foresaw his rebellion before he was created or born.
But free will must have to take place, and i believe that this is how God operates, correct me if i am wrong.
God Bless!