My wife and I waited. When you wait, that is one area you can trust your spouse with. I believe that those who wait are truly desiring after the mate's heart while resisting the physical short-term need of satisfying one's self.
I trust my wife. She trust me. The effort of staying faithful before marraige builds your faith up and also draws you closer to God.
I am a strong believer in Ephesian 5. Some men will focus on verses 22-24 but my focus is on verses 25-33.
The Bible has great teahings for every aspect of your life. I guess thats why I love this quote:
B.I.B.L.E = Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth
I messed up the first time but since now I have my handy manual (Bible), I know how to get it right the second time!
For His Harvest,
Eddie