Aineo,
I am very sorry in that regard. I am glad that you have first hand experience in this regard. I apolagize for not recognizing that earlier but I have never used this site before. I cannot speak to your experiences as a gay man, but I can say that i do not believe that they are representative of all gay relationships just as I do not think a married person could speak to all marriages or a heterosexual person to all heterosexual lifestyles.
I am happy if you are more fulfilled with your new lifestyle but I dont believe that Jesus condemns your old lifestyle either (strictly the homosexual part)