Abduallah,
I think that somewhere a long the line, your understanding of Christianity has been very, very distorted. Your post was a long one, but I'll try and do you justice and God willing, it will bring your distorted view points back to a reality one, so we can discuss things in a way that shows you understand what you are talking about.
As a Christian, many times on this forum, I have asked Muslims to explain certain passages of the Qur'an from their perspective. I have shown up passages that appear to contradict Islamic teaching and asked for explanations.
In this post you have made assumptions.. and exaggerated many of those assumptions based on your world view of what a true Christian is. I will address that in amongst my answers to your post, and as you read, I ask only that you read not with the closed mind of one who will stand on whatever he reads in different forums addressing Christianity from a Muslim perspective, but from a heart that is truly submitted to God and is wanting to serve Him, which is the heart of all true Muslims.
Must women always be blamed for what men do from sins? Are women that filthy that men can be defiled from them, and the vise versa is not true?
Never in Islam did Allah Almighty blame women for the sins men do. Every human being is responsible for his/her sins. Even in the story of Adam and Eve, the Bible blames Eve for everything, while in the Noble Quran Adam and Eve are both blamed equally.
Let's be honest here.. according to Muhammed, most of the inhabitants of hell will be women...
n a hadith found in the Sahih of Al-Bukhari we find the following narrative describing the inferior status of women in Islam:
Narrated [by] Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet said: “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful.” It was asked, “Do they disbelieve in Allah?” (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, “They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them.”
and in the Qur'an itself
“Men are in charge of women because Allah hath made the one to excel the other.... As for those from whom ye fear rebellion, admonish them and banish them to beds apart, and scourge them” (4:34).
Now, your understanding of the role of Adam and Eve in the Garden Fall is actually very incorrect. The Bible does no where teach that Eve was to blame. It teaches equal blame .. and equal condemndation. Notice what it says in Genesis 3:6
When the woman saw that the fruit of the tree was good for food and pleasing to the eye, and also desirable for gaining wisdom, she took some and ate it. She also gave some to her husband.. WHO WAS WITH HER... and he ate it.
The Bible very specifically states that this desicion to eat of the fruit was a joint one. Adam said nothing to Eve whilst she was being tempted, he allowed her to take and eat the fruit and then he too ate it. That he is equally guilty before God is the key theme in Romans chapter 5, where not once is Eve mentioned as being guilty.. but it's the great theme of Romans.. that the death that came through one's man sin, is overturned by the God-man's life and death and resurrection.
Now.. to move onto the verses of Matthew 7:22-23
Now, you have made the assumption that Jesus is talking to true believers.. but you have read the text totally out of context. Please look first at Matthew 6:13-14 and 7:15-20.
Here Jesus is warning the people who are listening to him, that many will assume that they are on the road to heaven based on the religious teaching they have received. He then talks of false prophets who come as wolves in sheep's clothing.. He shows how to recognize them. Why? because they may speak and sound like people who know what they are talking about when it comes to leading you to God and salvation, but in fact they are actually counterfeits who lead many to destruction. Just because some one says they are from Jesus, or because they do miracles, this in no way makes them necessarily His followers. There is only one group that will make it to heaven.. the ones who do the will of the Father in Heaven.
He then discusses the wise man who builds his house upon the rock. Who is the rock.. He tells us in Matthew 16:18 ".. on this rock I will build my church" and again in 1 Peter 2:6 "See, I lay a stone in Zion, a chosen and precious cornerstone, and the one who puts his trust in Him, will never be put to shame. Now to you who believe, this stone is precious, but to those who do not believe, the stone the builders rejected, has become the capstone, and "a stone that causes men to stumble and a rock that causes them to fall. They stumble because they disobey the message."
You see Abdullah, you or I can make the Bible say anything if we take the verses out of context and quote them. Your source has done this and developed a whole arguement out of it that is based on wrong assumptions. Christian cults do this, and these are those that Jesus is warning the people about.. some will come in his name, and even do great things.. but they are not of God and will have no part in the Kingdom of God.
I want to discuss the Book of Solomon and divorce in other posts.. so I'll send this now and continue in the next post.