Linda...
I ask you?
Can you make your dog do dishes?
If not then you cant force a boy into a man.
Dont belittle yourself by lowering yourself to the level.
I dont know what kind of mother raised him.
But my caregiver when I was a child was black and she would have turned me into a full white child had I talked like him because she would have slaped all the other colors right out of me.
Either he dosnt
respect his mother and all women right along with her.
Or he was just to weak emotionaly to withstand not being loved enough and is now takeing out his frustrations.
Pity him maybe but dont get upset.
(and yes I am triracial a Mix of Black, Indian and white...if you wanna call a Italian/irish mix white heheheh)