I agree Aineo, no matter what we do, we will offend someone. I'm sure we do that everyday in all of the forums. I guess it's why it's so important for me to write in the attitude of "speaking the truth in love". Truth, will offend, but the messenger shouldn't. Using this medium of communication that is not easy, when body language is removed as well. Here are a few thoughts that might contribute to this discussion.
1. In some way bring Crystal into the picture. Create a group and make her a member as in the Quaran Group.
2. I asked Michael "ex Wiccan" what and how to approach things and he said these things were important.
a. don't rush into the forum. Choose a team and a specific topic for each member and spend a month or so learning... don't touch the things you are reading, but do show you know your topic.
b. Be extremely sensitive in the way you approach answers and people. They live in a world of having to defend what they believe and will do two things, clam up or defend. To help them come to an understanding of truth, you need to discuss first in a non offensive way.
c. He suggested we look into this website for background information. Again, he said, don't touch what you read, but use the information. It was his training manual. He said to tell you all that the important thing is not to just attack the beliefs but remember the power has a true source and we are speaking against that power source.
http://psiborg. net
He said that we need to protect ourselves spiritually and do take your time in opening it till we feel ready. We have the idea, now we need to pray and prepare ourselves.