Homosexual Discussion ForumMy son killed himself!Well, Betty I am going to be blunt and maybe come across as a bit insensitive. But, you cannot hold yourself responsible for the irrational actions of a confused boy. You son made a decision that did not have anything to do with your initial reaction to a confession that took you by surprise. My mother blamed herself for raising two gay sons and wondered for years what she did wrong. My mother blamed herself because her 3rd pregnancy, which was a full term pregnancy, resulted in a stillborn. What you decide to receive as your fault is your decision and has no bearing on reality. You cannot change the past, but you can remember and hold onto the joy your son brought into your life. Beating yourself up will not honor or benefit you, your son, those around you, or the legacy of good he did in this life. |
🌈Pride🌈 goeth before Destruction
When 🌈Pride🌈 cometh, then cometh Shame