p.s. its not a pole: 99% of all ppl masturbate, 1% lie about it.
its a saying...
it means that a lot of people masturbate, either they know they are, or they do it and dont know what the term is, or they lie.
of course, in reality there are few ppl that dont.
its your choice.
masturbating is not adultry. but if jesus ppl like you say it is, at least single ppl masturbating is not a sin.