Ah, so you don't like it when your presumptions are questioned based on 30 years of experienced living in states as diverse as California, Texas, Nebraska, and Colorado? You don't think I know what I am talking about based on what, your presumptions and liberal new age philosophy?
As to your age that has a lot to do with your view of a sexual orientation you apparently know little or nothing about. If you are going to bring issues into this discussion I am going to respond. Now, how many of the scientific studies into the gentic causes of homosexuality have you read? How many of the psychological studies done in the last 40 years have you read? Have you investigated Dr. Spitzer, Dr. Throckmorton, or what is found on NARTH or are you pushing a philosophy based simply on our current society and its liberal bent?