Peace2God'sPeople wrote:Homosexuality has 3 main causes,

1) Those who are the least to blame become homosexual due to having been molested or raped (especially by members of same sex). People who have been victims of this are naturally very confused about sexuality since such a detestable thing has been done to them.

I've never been molested, raped or become a victim of sexual abuse.

2) Another group is made up of those who, as children, had parents who did something to cause them to be warped emotionally and it, in turn affects their sexuality; a father who dislikes his son because he is not masculine enough, a mother who dominates her sons to such extremes that they have difficulty developing warm feelings for members of the opposite sex. A daughter who gets little love from her mother or father may also wind up in this boat.

My brother and I grew up in the same family, brought up by the same parenting, went to almost the same schools, shared many friends among each other and grew up in the same community. Yet, I am gay and he is not.

3) Lastly are those who are, perhaps, the most to blame. In a society that seems completed devoted to pleasure seeking those who abuse drugs at parties, quite frankly, get so high that they don't care how their lust are fulfilled as long as they have the best possible time they can imagine. Once they have sexual relations with someone of the opposite sex, the normal aversion that we are born with is lost. These people no longer care who they sleep with, as long as they have a "good time".

I've never abused drugs at parties. In fact, I hardly go to any parties at all! I've never had sexual relations with the opposite sex, so my 'normal aversion' has not been lost, whatever that means. Regardless, I still had homosexual feelings and I had gotten very, very good at denying them for quite some time actually. Though you can never underestimate the power of denial, you can also never underestimate the will to be free.

There is probably a last category of those whose parents foolishly let their horny boys have friends over to spend the night and then let them sleep in the same bed. The sex drive that boys have (unemotional quest for pleasure) is one that doesn't need to be toyed with. Fathers should have the wisdom to put a stop to this, but many are afraid to because it exposes some embarassing truths about men. So boys may not be attracted to each other, but boys (more than the average girl) are all set for pleasure, and putting them in such a compromising situation is foolish.

The only time I slept in the same bed with another boy (with exception to my current boyfriend) is if there were not enough beds to sleep in on a road trip with friends, which occured like once in my entire life. And even then, we separated our blankets to give each other our necessary space and privacy.

There you have it. There is not much more to it than that. Many people will write and say that this is not the case with them. Well, I don't know. I do know that I meet people right and left who I know regularly "party". Yet ask them in a one on one conversation if they drink and they will say "Naw, I used to do that stuff, but I don't anymore. I had my fill of that in high school."

If there are truly some of you out there that NONE of this really applies to, I will apologize for stereotyping you into a category now. Yet within homosexuality or bisexuality you are a minority. The vast majority fall into one of the 4 aforementioned categories.

Sincerely,
Peace2God'sPeople

Not only have you not provide ANY shred of evidence for your theories of homosexuality (not to mention that those reasons aren't even accepted by most psychological and medical associations on homosexuality), but I don't fall into any of those categories. Furthermore, I have gay friends who don't fall into any of those categories either. In fact, my boyfriend has never been molested, doesn't party much at all and has a brother whom he grew up with and is straight.

To say that the vast majority fall into one of the 4 categories is just crying out for some evidence or even statistics, which I am confident you cannot provide.