All 3:
Actually you guys are a lot nicer (so far) than I was when I was a Christian!
I used to challenge Muslim, Jews, atheists and everyone else who didn't appreciate what I thought Jesus "did" for us.
Infact, outside of the actual "doctrine" of Christianity, the main reason I left the Chruch was because it wasn't giving me or MOST young men and women what they really need in this society.
DISCIPLINE
Most Christians in MY community didn't even PRACTICE let alone ENFORCE what I thought should have been practiced by Christians in the society.
I was discouraged by the hipocracy and double-standards I saw in people calling themselves Christians but justified wicked things.