Okay Aineo. You are 60 and I am 16. However, you said that in your experiences you've concluded that the gay lifestyle is destructive emotionally, physically, and spiritually. In knowing a single example of one such relationship that is not destructive emotionally, physically, and spiritually, I prove that it's not the lifestyle that takes on those attributes, but the people involved. If I know a single gay couple that lives happily without harming eachother or their neighbors, then that means your claim was simply based on "destructive" gays, rather than "all" gays. I know that not all gays are good people, but I know that some are.
I know that not all heterosexuals are good people, either. There are heterosexuals who abuse their children and eachother. That doesn't mean that I'm about to start saying "all heterosexuals are destructive." Simply having a lifetime's worth of experiences in one way or another can't prove for the entire group. Heck, the Klu Klux Klan thought they were Christian. That doesn't mean all Christians are destructive, though sometimes I begin to think otherwise. After all, the Crusades did kill quite a few people. The damnation of people based on sexual orientation and ethnic background. Being prejudiced against others is a common theme in a lot of Christian people, but I'm not about to judge the entire group.
So, in 32 years of the lifestyle, you've found it destructive. Well, in about 5 years of understanding the lifestyle, I've found that it is not destructive. The individuals involved, rather than the lifestyle itself, make it destructive or not destructive. Just how a gun, in my hands, would be virtually harmless whereas a gun in the hands of a murderer could be very dangerous. Guns aren't destructive. They're just tools.
~Charles