spunky wrote:In that much we are in agreement like that passage that said "husbands love your wives, wives honour your husbands" It doesn't mean men are better just that they have this biological need to feel useful and needed while most women want to be loved and cherised.. i just don't like it! why do men get to be the head? it doesn't seem fair that women (eve) bore the brunt of the punishment but men get rewarded for the same mistake?
What really confused me is that my youth Paster said that if my husband were to tell me to go and kill someone I had to do it cause not obeying my husband was sin and that by me doing it against my will I was showing him greater love and it is through that love that he would see wisdom... this makes no sense to me is not murder the greater sin?
Men get rewarded for the mistake? Now that is a new twist on an old story.
At to why God placed men and not women in charge; take it up with God.
As to what your youth pastor told you, he is stark raving mad and should be removed!! "You shall not committ murder" is not a suggestion it is a commandment and no husband has the right or the authority to order his wife to committ a felony.