My father died an atheist as did my youngest brother both of whom I dearly loved. My oldest brother is in a cult and unless he changes his ways then he will not be in heaven and one of my nieces is an active lesbian.
Jesus said:
Matthew 10:34-39
34 "Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. 35 "For I came to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; 36 and a man's enemies will be the members of his household. 37 "He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. 38 "And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. 39 "He who has found his life shall lose it, and he who has lost his life for My sake shall find it. NAS