adding to the question
Just to add to the mix.... What about masturbating someone else (I suppose some would see it as an alternitive to sex)? I recently discoverd that one of my friends is involved in doing this with her boyfriend and I have no idea what to say to her or how to confront her about it. I mean, it's one thing to show her from the Bible why masturbation is wrong (or least not a good idea), but what about when she's doing it to her boyfriend? Would that classify as something else? (Maybe I'm just too sheltered and don't know that this has another name...) Is it more under the fornication heading? I'd like to hear your opinions.
--Li Qin