Who said it was there fault for having gay desires? Who said they should be treated with less respect or compassion than any human being?
Parents have the right and responsibility to raise their children; children do not have the right to oppose their parents.
The Bible tells us to honor our parents and as Paul notes is the first commandment with a promise: "that your days may be long on the land". However Paul also instructs:
Colossians 3:21
21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, that they may not lose heart.
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