Well since you are male I was limiting my comments to "clobber" verses for men.
I am well aware of the differences between orientation and preference.
As to Exodus ministries you simply don't know what you are talking about. Personally, I made the transformation without the benefit of an Exodus affiliate ministry and have helped men and women via the Internet find God's truth without Exodus involved. So you can rant all you want about what you don't know.
I do know that Joe Dallas, who is a past President of Exodus and a mental health professional, was heavily involved with UFMCC and is now married and does ex-gay counseling. There are many men and women who have been transformed by God's truth with and without the help of any ministry.
You are simply rationalizing what you want to believe just like Troy Perry and Mel White.